Friday, May 1, 2009

Seriously? Part 2

Ok, the other day I posted about the newspaper telling people how to clean their houses...now its how to take care of their kids.

We have several schools in the area that have closed due to the swine flu scare. This presents a bit of a problem for working parents who weren't expecting this. Finding childcare for those kids is a legitimate problem if you can't get off of work. However, the local news last night was reporting that now parents must try to find ways to occupy their kids at home. The news so helpfully suggested occupying them with play-doh, paints, or board games. They even had a live shot of a stack of board games, you know, in case you've never seen one before!

They also stated that if you were planning on taking them to any activity centers in Fort Worth that you couldn't do it because they were all closed too.

Ok, I have a couple of problems with this. First of all, if you have children you should know how to take care of them without any help from the local news. Unfortunatly, not everyone does, I guess, because the news keeps finding plenty of them to interview. I don't think children need to be occupied or entertained every minute of the day. Hello, let's just let them be kids. Maybe if we let them occupy themselves every once in a while they'd develop creativity. Can't they just play with their toys or with each other?

Second, I think the media assumes all Americans are completely ignorant and helpless without the heroic media telling them what to do at every moment. Unfortunatly, I think there are plenty of Americans that believe that is true as well.

I wish that people would just raise their kids. Whether they go to public or private school or they are homeschooled, we should all be raising our kids. So many kids today are put into daycare at such an early age that I think they are really missing out on being raised by their parents. Instead, they are being monitored by various institutions for most of their lives. They have to constantly be doing a structured activity all day, every day. When do they just get to be kids?

I worked in one of those big, chain daycares. There were some kids that would be taken there before school. The daycare took them to school and picked them back up again. Then, their parents came around closing time, wisked them out to go to baseball practice or ballet or some other extracurricular activity. So, this was their day: daycare, school, daycare, practice, home to go to bed and do it all over again the next day. How can you raise a child if you are never with that child?

I think it is this institutional attitude that makes everyone think that kids must be engaged in a structured activity all day long. And well, the news thinks they should be so it must be truth? If children are at home for a week, can't parents figure out what to do with them? Most parents I know could, but apparently, there are those who cannot. (I see them interviewed on the news almost every night now.)

It is one of my greatest wishes that American parents will take back their kids from the government and the media and raise them up to have morals, ethics, and common sense the way it was meant to be done.

I think so many Americans have just gotten so used to the media sticking their noses into our lives that we don't even notice anymore. So many people seem to just believe everything the media says without realizing the media has its own agenda. Wake up, America! We don't need the media to tell us how to live!

4 comments:

Terry said...

Great post .

Laurie said...

Just wanted to let you know I left something on my blog for you!;)

papel1 said...

I agree with you about the media. thanks for stopping by my blog.
Judy

Frugal Jen said...

I agree 100%. I enjoy my kids and want to be around them. Even many stay at home mom's whisk their kids off for other people to watch them during the day. Um, why do you stay at home then, if you aren't raising your kids?

We are so proud to have you and Chris as our children's godparents!